Oscar’s life is a short and wondrous one. He was Dominican and American and people usually called him ‘Loser.’ He loved reading comic books and liked women but did not know how to treat women. People usually think that kind of person cannot have any relationship with a woman but that is wrong. Surprisingly, he had many experiences with women but those were not normal and successful. He was a man who lived with love and died with love. It seems romantic but in the story, it was totally not. His relationship was very non-traditional.
Fuku is the ancient curse from Dominican culture, and Oscar’s family had that curse before Oscar was born and continued to have it. Trujillo is the dictator of Dominica, and he was the Fuku to Oscar’s family, because Oscar’s family was one of the ones that received hurt from Trujillo’s despotic government, and Oscar’s mother’s family met tragedy. The father was sent to the prison and her mother and two sisters were dead. Also, Oscar’s mother lived with her side of the family but she was the victim of a lot of family violence. After she escaped from Dominica, she was raised in New Jersey, USA. She raised her kids by herself, she worked a lot for her kids even though was dangerous. This shows how she is strong as a mother and a woman. Oscar was described as a very weak person and man in the story because when a woman who Oscar fell in love with, she rejected Oscar’s love, and he decided to kill himself. He failed but this shows how he is weak and makes foolish mistakes. The mother of Oscar and Lola, who is Oscar’s sister, do sexual discrimination. Lola is a smart and pretty girl but the mother cares more about Oscar because he is the son and Lola is not and she wants Lola to take care of Oscar. Her action shows how different she thinks power relationships between men and women are, but reality is totally different because Oscar is weaker than the women.
When I read this book, I felt really sorry for Oscar’s family. The end of the story is not a happy ending because Oscar chose love but because of that, his life did not end in a good way. As I said he is lived with love and died with love. In this book, the women show more power than men, because Oscar’s mother raised Oscar and Lola by herself and Lola was described as a very smart and strong woman. Also, Oscar has many struggles from women. This story shows men are not always strong and women can be strong.